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Hi! I am Holger.

I’ve always had a preference to get to know people on a deeper level.
Because I didn’t like the small talk at all. Talk to me using yes/no questions, and I’ll politely say goodbye.
I would always ask questions that no one had ever asked you before. Like if you’re thinking in pictures, emotions, colors, keywords or whatever may be the case. When I was a little guy I often sneaked into the rooms of my older sister to see what novels she is reading. Later on I took interest in everything that deals with empathy and psychology. Until today there’s not much actionable content online or available for you to acquire those skills.
That’s what I’ll be going to help you with.