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Pitfalls – Man to woman

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This is a summarization of how to improve your conversational skills. This will help you to avoid the most common pitfalls. 1. The Wrong Mindset – pushing her to do something  This is not about pushing her over until she gives in. Not at all. Don’t do this. Please! You want to get to know […]

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A Deep Connection – What is it?

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You feel it. You will feel it when it is there. You can see it if you see this loving couple walking by. You know it’s there. Do you always need to establish a Deep Connection consciously? No, you can just feel it. It might just happen, too. You might feel it when you’re hugging […]

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Hi! I am Holger.

I’ve always had a preference to get to know people on a deeper level.
Because I didn’t like the small talk at all. Talk to me using yes/no questions, and I’ll politely say goodbye.
I would always ask questions that no one had ever asked you before. Like if you’re thinking in pictures, emotions, colors, keywords or whatever may be the case. When I was a little guy I often sneaked into the rooms of my older sister to see what novels she is reading. Later on I took interest in everything that deals with empathy and psychology. Until today there’s not much actionable content online or available for you to acquire those skills.
That’s what I’ll be going to help you with.